Logo

What makes you different?

14.06.2025 11:02

What makes you different?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

What are some good Caribbean islands to travel to with friends or family? Why?

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

So, keep on experimenting.

What does it mean when we dream about demons, ghosts, monsters, etc.?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

As a woman, what would be you response to a male friend’s offer of a full body massage?

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

What do you think of a parent telling their adult child to “keep their personal life to themselves” in relation to talking to them? No reason they should say that it was mean what should I do?

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

How can the democrats say Mr. Trump is bad when he is already fixing this country again and he's not even president yet?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

If Jesus was crucified by Governor Pontius Pilate, why does the Quran deny his death?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

What's a memory from your childhood that shaped who you are today?

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Which Bibles can one read and be confident they are reading the inerrant word of God?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

What does it mean if I had a dream about my mom who passed 12 years ago waking up from her coma and asking for my dad? I have never had a dreams about her since she has been gone.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

What makes you YOU.

Do Indian guys like African girls?

Can you make it?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

What if he’d come outside?

Can you explain the difference between being a conservative Republican and a liberal Democrat? Can you provide some examples of their ideologies?

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

I think that being gay is wrong, but I treat gay people respectfully like any other person. Is it homophobic? Or offensive in any kind of way? Aren’t disagreement and discrimination two different things?

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

So, what actually makes us all different?

Agree?

What should I do to stop being angered easily?

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

How do teachers justify punishing a student for fighting back against their bullies?

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.